do I become legally separated?
- In order to be legally separated, one spouse must move
out of the house, and the spouses must live separate and apart with at
least one spouse intending that the separation be permanent.
much does a Separation and Property Settlement Agreement cost?
- It depends. If there are not a lot of marital assets
and debts to be divided and depending if there are minor children born of
the marriage, a Separation Agreement can be basic and not break the bank.
Typically, a $1,500-$2,500 retainer would be expected for a rather
straight forward Agreement. If there are many marital assets and debts to
be divided and an intensive financial analysis needs to be completed and
custody, child support, and/or alimony need to be considered, then the
Agreement will take more time to complete and thus, and a $2,500-$5,000 retainer
would be appropriate for a more complex Agreement. The final cost is
heavily dependent on how well the parties are communicating and
are my rights?
- You have many rights and laws to protect you. You need
to have a consultation with an experienced family law attorney who can
guide you and answer any questions you have.
do we figure out custody right now?
- You can agree to a temporary parenting agreement. For
many parents who want to share custody with one another, they exercise a 2-2-3
schedule or a week on, week off schedule. However, it depends on what kind
of schedule will work best for you and your spouse. If one parent is
denying another parent visitation, you will need to file a Custody
Complaint, schedule the mandatory mediation and obtain a date for a
temporary custody hearing.
is child support determined?
- In many cases, child support is determined pursuant to
the North Carolina Child Support Guidelines. There are child support
worksheets in which you can input income information and child related
expenses, and these worksheets will provide you with the amount of child
support you or the other parent should pay pursuant to the guidelines.
is alimony determined?
- In the most basic sense, alimony is determined based on
the needs of the dependent spouse, the ability to pay of the supporting
spouse, the length of the marriage, the age and education of both parties,
and the standard of living the spouses were accustomed to during their
marriage. There are many other factors that are considered. An
attorney can help provide you with specifics regarding your circumstances.
do I protect my money?
- You should monitor your joint bank accounts if you are
separated or if you believe a separation is imminent.
I do anything with our joint accounts now?
- Monitor them closely. If you have a joint account with
your spouse, and you are concerned that your spouse is going to take all
the money in the account, or the bulk of it, you may withdraw half of what
is in the account.
do I prevent my spouse from coming back to the house uninvited?
- If you and your spouse have separated, and your spouse
moves out of the house, and you do not want your spouse to come back to
the house uninvited, you may tell your spouse so (preferably in writing
via text or email). If your spouse comes back uninvited, you may call the
police as your spouse has committed what is referred to as domestic
happens if we reconcile?
- If you reconcile, then the date of
separation that you established is no longer your date of separation. If
you and your spouse executed a Separation Agreement, then you must look to
the terms of your Separation Agreement to see what it says about